Friday, April 16, 2010

Food For Thought

Sometimes in life we are faced with difficult decisions and there will always be those that agree or disagree with the choices we make. We can only hope that we make the decisions that have everyone's best interest at heart and pray that those who disagree will respect us, our choices and move past on without ill will. I pray every day that God gives us the courage, knowledge, patience, time and understanding to not only look at situations from every angle but to do his will. Sometimes there are circumstance that exist that not everyone may know or understand that would prevent us from choosing the same road that others would typically travel. It is during these times that I pray that God gives us the grace to handle the situation and the mercy to understand the point of view of those who disagree.

It has never been our intention to do anything that would hurt a child physically, psychologically or any other way. We do what we feel is the best way to safety instruct your children and make sure they are having fun in the process. Baseball isn't always about fundamentals or competition. The things that your kids learn in baseball can be applied to other aspects of their lives and will be carried with them forever. Now that is a pretty heavy thought for a coach to consider.

As these boys enter a more competitive league it is very important that they learn to conduct themselves properly and learn the meaning of good sportsmanship.

I choose to tell Hunter that I expect him to have a Christ like attitude. As you all can tell we are still working on that… It is important that he learn to have grace about himself when contributes to the score or to accept a bad call. He should have patience for those who don't know the things that he does or may need more instruction because they aren't as experienced as he is. I would hope he is humble enough to admit when he is wrong and eventually laugh about it. Hunter should have respect for elders that attempt to teach him life’s lessons. He should compassion for those who are hurt and sick. I expect him to offer assistance to those in need or pitch in when he can, even when he isn’t asked to help. He has got to learn that we expect a 100% effort every time. He is never allowed to just get lazy because in our house that is a contagious and definitely doesn't allow him to be at his best. A job done halfway is a job not done at all. I pray he has the conviction voice his opinion and defend his faith. I hope he has the courage to put himself out there and take a risk but learn from the mistakes he makes. I hope he has the strength to accept the things he doesn’t understand and to look to God when he can’t find the answers. All these things and more are very very important. I know that it sounds crazy but baseball (or any other activity he does) will help shape Hunter into the Man that he will some day be.

I hope that this tidbit of thought helps you understand how truly we are blessed to have the faith that you have instilled in us to be a part of your child’s life. This isn’t a job that any of us take lightly. I want nothing but the very best for my child and we choose to think of your children as our own. Coaching is a privilege that Thomas doesn’t take lightly. His objective is never to step on any toes or cause anyone concern over his actions but to teach your kids the fundamentals of life… and play a little baseball on the way. Thomas loves what he does and is humbled by your trust in him.

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